Oh they're everywhere- you wouldn't have any difficulty spotting them at all. In as much as they seem "cute" to the world around them, when you'd dig down deeper into them, you'd find your voice resonating, echoing loudly back and forth in the empty cave that is their minds and hearts.
Now, how do we come to recognize one? First, you'd know these guys by their lack of wisdom. As much as they seem to know "everything," they don't apply their knowledge often enough. Their tongues are loose and their favorite sport is playing around with unsuspecting girls' hearts. As rude as it sounds, this much is true. Believe me, I've encountered far too many like them. They go about saying words that are supposed to hold a deeper meaning, as if those words are just common punctuation marks. Their mouths endlessly flatter, and their actions are done without much thought beforehand. Their arms are soon to drape around a woman's shoulders and their lips open and close to spew empty endearments.
These guys also have no convictions. Usually, they settle for what they feel is right. Feelings play a very significant role in their lives in that they follow what they feel more often than they do not. You see, they seem to have this false mindset that men do not have the capability to control. They think getting drunk is cool and being swarmed by bikini-clad women is practically heaven on earth. I don't have to emphasize this, but yes, this is very, very cheap.
These guys are also allergic to commitments. In their hearts, they prefer the enjoyment of the moment, unmindful of what becomes tomorrow. They like the thought of having a girlfriend ( or wife for that matter) but they think keeping a relationship is far too tedious. So, they settle for flings, or relationships as hazy as the sight of one who's just woken up- what we like to call a mutual understanding. You see, they obviously like girls, the idea of girls and girls themselves, but he responsibility tied to being with one is way above their heads. If they do come into relationship, chances are that they're going to get tired pretty soon and run off to prey on someone else.
Most of all, these guys don't read their Bibles. They may keep their own Bibles at home but chances are that they've never opened them at all or have read them from time to time but haven't absorbed anything. Anyone who has not absorbed the word of God is on the dark; he's clueless and lost. So, if he claims to be a Christian yet his life is not aligned to what he knows is the will of God, there's something very wrong with him. You see when he claims to love God yet not put much value on God's word, and doesn't put much effort on doing what it says, he's a major problem.
To sum it up, he's all in all, a lie.
I have to say that this blog is not meant to condemn any male who happened to be reading, but to challenge men to act as men, to go up a level higher than their usual brittle standards, and to refuse to be ones who can be called cheap.
On the other hand, this blog can also be reversed to relate to females who are reading. This is also to tell you girls that you should know better than swooning over those cheap ones!
D.G.
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